hello, since im still wide awake and i have nothing to do. i shall start blogging!
these few days have been rather eventful and i will try to write down what i feel as detailed as i can.
lets start on monday. we seem like we'll never get used to 8.30 lessons. plus hiccups from china, i was all angsty as usual. sometimes i wonder if dear has ever wished that i never gotten into this business. its like, this business has brought nothing but angst and trouble. okay, maybe not nothing, but definitely not worth the few dollars its earning. i admit that im really easily affected by my business cos i am really quite passionate about it. and it sucks to have any setbacks. and im really sorry that dear has to tolerate all these shit, just cos of my 'passion'. math tutorial caused some angst again. i could see dear on the verge of losing his patience. i wonder how many more mondays will it take for all these to break. sometimes, when im out of the situation, i wish that nothing like this will happen. but somehow, when you're in it, it just happens.
tues was crazy. i had no idea why i was so upset, but i was. i soulsearched the entire journey back, there wasn't any specific reason, it was just the feeling. maybe it's the stress. like there's so much things to cope with and my business venture doesnt seem like its working very well. i know dear thinks it is, but it feels as if for my effort, the work should pay off in better ways. but anyway, as usual, dear being my safe target, i projected it on him. throughout the journey back home, i ignored him and walked, sat or stood as if im alone. it must have been pretty agonizing for dear, who obviously have done nothing wrong. its like on the way back, i kept thinking, why am i acting like this, why am i torturing dear when he has done nothing wrong. then the other school surfaces and say, you can't stop this unhappiness. u really want to open your mouth, but you just cant. you feel like the words are at your teeth but it's stuck. after a while, when dear tried in vain to get me to talk, he kind of gave up and decide to leave me alone. a part of me got a little pissed, like why did he give up so easily after some feeble weak attempts of trying to get me to talk. he could have done better instead of just harping on 'theories' like everything will be better, it's okay. he could have done something totally unrelated with just the pure aim to cheer me up. sometimes, girls does not need the problem to be solved, they just need the feeling to be gone. then another part of me felt a little sad and regretful. like am i pushing this too far, it's not dear's fault, yet he still tries to coax me as if it is. and i push him away, like its really his fault. any other guy would have flared and walked off. after that, dear mentioned a little about running away. altho he gave me an explanantion for that, but im not really convinced that it is really the explanation.
wed was a day of long hours and little interaction as usual. the night was spent seperately, with dear at jurong east with his friends and me at tuition. but dear came over my house after that. sneaking him in was rather fun. kissed a little but everything else went as planned - we will be too tired to do anything. honestly tho, sleeping with dear is the best thing i can do actually. i have no idea if dear really means it when he means sleeping is also quality time spent together, but i honestly mean it. it feels really 'right' sleeping next to you, and i just sleep real well. dear asked me on the train if i will ever get engaged when i'm still studying. i gave him a wth look, and said i dunno. lol. sorry, that question kind of stunned me. like i was thinking, huh why are you asking that. then i thought, maybe its just a random qn. then what am i supposed to answer? what if it's a qn under a random qn. lol. so i just settled for i dunno. lol
thurs was an interesting night. went out with dear's friends for xlb buffet and headed to clementi for a game session at a cafe. everything was jus normal, but sometimes, i wonder if my presence has affected the bonding with his friends. like, i dont think im very capable of blending in with his friends. so often, i just stand there, listen attentively and keep quiet unless i have to speak. so as my perfect bf, dear stays with me every second. the holding hands thing worried me a little too. like are we supposed to hold hands in front of them? isn't the rule be like, no physical intimacy when in a group. haha, but somehow, dear seems more touchy when in a group than when we are alone. like he will put his hands on my waist and stuff.
after that, dear sent me home. he was supposed to just stay for a while but ended up cabbing back again. we fell asleep again, sleeping all the way till 3 before dear left. i have no idea why but lethargy always set in when im with dear. like im so comfortable, i just want to sleep. no idea if its a good thing or not. i just hope that, this will not affect our real quality time bonding and we suddenly realise that we have already drifted before we know it. spending the cab fare just to sleep doesnt sound very wise too.